Org kata (actually tgk u-tube), rship ada few stages. We go thru each stages and it has its own criteria.. It's more like a phase from hooking up to breaking up.
01. Strangers
Mula2 tak kenal. Like apa yg attract the both of u close to each other. The x factor. Looks? Attitude? Just simply anything??
02. The chase
Dari mula2 usha sampai tackle2. Trial n error phase. Org kata (u tube) masa nie masa yg paling berbunga2. Bila ada 1 new message. Hati melompat2 nak baca sms tue. Yeke? Ahaha.. Skrg zaman ввм sume naik terus takde tunggu 2-3 minit for one new sms.
03. Honeymoon
Bila dah jadi couple. Rasa dunia nie bling2. Full of rainbows. Haha. Mcm teori ted from HIMYM honeymoon phase nie, kita rasa kita lah yg paling hebat and other couple sux. Well, it's gonna last sumhow.
04. Comfortable
Bila dah habis dah phase rollercoaster ride nie. Mulalah kita akan menjadi diri kita sendiri. U-tube cakap phase nie it's either u continue to work on the rship or u just simply start to build a distance with ur partner.
05. Tolerance
Bila dah start ada that invisible distance, mula rasa there's sumthing wrong, but u just don't know what. Most of steady couple ada di phase ini. They foughts, they argue, they make up, and it goes on and on. Tp sbb the trust they have upon each other yg buat diorg still holding on.
06. Downhill
Nie bila the bitter parts are more than the sweet parts. Rough days turns to months or maybe years. Masa nie lah akan pop up question in each of their mind, are they strong enough to either hold on or let it go ie. Breaking up. Masa nie jugak lah, they start to look for a matress to back their fall, maybe cheating with other person, or just simply ignoring the other person or whatever. But it's going down the drain.
07. Breaking up
Mula2 rasa bila break up nie ada 2 outcome. Sama ada u can maintain being just friends or u turns out being each other worst nightmare. Which one is urs?
08. Strangers
Bila dah back to strangers, all u have is just bits of memories. Tak ingat sgt pun. Eventho u'll still remember, but that heart of urs still have the scars from the breaking. U'd never want to feel it ever again.
So what phase are u?
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